Basics of Relationship!
Relationships are beautiful when started, for both the
people. Usually, it’s the feeling of being on a 9th cloud. But when
somebody asks you a question that are you truly happy in your current
relationship? 8O% of people can’t answer it with a straight face and without
blinking an eye. And if you can’t answer that question in a second without even
giving it a thought that means you’re truly not happy. There’s something that’s
bothering you. Now when we talk about relationship or singlehood, there’s a lot
of difference in both of them. One is something where you have all the freedom
of the world, you can do whatever you want to do in your life and much more.
But on the other side when you’re in relationship you have somebody who’s always
by your side no matter what, which gives you the power to do anything in this world
for that person.
Being in a relationship is very hard and creating a true
relationship is almost next to impossible. But one question that each one
should ask to themselves is do they regret their current relationship. If the
answer that comes to mind is ever a YES then that’s the point where you should
be true to yourself and your partner and leave it peacefully. But if the answer
pops as a NO then you know that even if you’re not completely happy, even if
there are things which are not sorted yet then to being there in that
relationship and fighting the odds is worth doing. Relationships are hard to
handle and it takes a lot of sacrifices and compromises to create a beautiful
and genuine relationship but when you have that relationship there’s nothing
better than that relationship.
Even if you have been in few relationships that
didn’t work out it’s actually a no big deal, once you find that person
everything every phase of your life looks worth even if you went through a hell
lot of pain. I have seen people who’re shit afraid of commitments and just
wants to keep it casual. If your partner is one of such people, let go of
him/her. And to give a reason behind it – I’ll explain you an example. Just think
that received a property or huge amount of cash. What will you do? For anyone
in their right state of mind, the answer will be I’ll secure my cash or property
as soon as possible. Same applies to a relationship once somebody found the
partner just like what they were looking for, they want to commit. They want to
secure that person all for themselves they make a choice to be with that person
instead of treating that person like a option. If your partner Is looking for something
casual that clearly states that about him/her you’re not the one.
And if you are
really serious about that person the best option in such situation is to leave
that person immediately because that will become the cause of your pain. The
most important thing in a relationship is that both of you should have the same
goal. For example, if both of you’re looking for a casual relationship then it’s
alright to be in that relationship or if both of you are serious then also it’s
fine to continue your relationship. The most important thing, in whatever stage
you’re in your relationship, you should not regret your relationship and if you
do then that’s the point you should leave immediately.
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